That said, here are some things I learned along the way, in no particular order:
- Bus stop restrooms. Lesson: Pay the kid. Explanation: The kids trying to get money for the bathrooms at bus stops on the way to Siem Reap are not begging. Our tuk tuk driver in Siem Reap, Nat, says it is common to charge people 500 Riel (~US$0.12) to use the bathrooms. He says even he will get charged.
- Negotiating prices. Lesson: Do it. Explanation: Sometimes it works if you let the seller offer a price first, then counter. Don't worry about getting "ripped off" the first couple of times: it allows you a chance to gauge what prices should be. Without any prior knowledge (i.e. guide books) of what a reasonable price should be, sometimes the only way to find out is through trial and error. Once, when looking at sunglasses, I didn't say a word (not intentionally) and the vendor kept lowering his prices. He even told me, "you know, you can negotiate prices". Haha, I know. It was great, because he got down to pretty close to where I was willing to pay. Oh, and it often helps to give a final offer with a smile. That worked 2 of 2 times for me to get my final price. I held firm and then finally smiled with the same offer and they gave it to me. And, it really is true what the books say, it's not about getting the lowest possible price, it is getting the most agreeable price to you and the vendor. If the price is what you are willing to pay and believe to be reasonable, and the vendor agrees, then there you go.
- Railay Beach.
- Getting there/back. Lesson:book a return trip to the airport through your hotel/guesthouse/or tour operator. Explanation: This was especially true for us in the low season, when it is hard to get a boat. It was cheaper for us to do so than to hire a boat for just the 2 of us. Or, wait an indefinite amount of time for the boat to fill up. In the high season, you may be better off going directly to the boat operators. Getting to Railay, we took a shuttle from the airport, so I can't comment on whether to book transportation through the hotel.
- Food. Lesson: Explore. Explanation: Railay Beach is tiny. You can cross from East to West in less than 15 minutes' walk, probably less than 10. The cheap, local food is on the east side, just north of Yaya Resort. We spent a day or two with sticker shock, until Jessica brought me to a local food stand. Thank you Jessica!
- Rock climbing. Lesson: Do it. Explanation: Railay is the place to climb. There are at least 3 outfitters here. We went through King Climbers and had a great experience. I'd never climbed before, my roommate had been climbing for 1.5 years. Aibe runs the joint, located between the Railay Princess Resort and Yaya Resort. Tiq, our guide, was fantastic. Super nice, mellow, all around good guy. I think this is the correct link to King Climbers, but I'm not sure.
- Taxis.
- Suvarnabhumi Airport (BKK) to Bangkok. Lesson:Pay the tolls and surcharge. Explanation: Like the guide book says, go to the taxi stand just outside the terminal. The driver will use the meter. What the book doesn't tell you is that you are responsible for the tolls. The taxi stand gives you a piece of paper describing when you are responsible for tolls and a surcharge, and when you are not. Unfortunately, it is a little confusing about the definition of "Greater Bangkok". I argued with the driver when we reached our destination, but eventually paid him, figuring it wasn't worth the fight. Thanks to my friend Abbie who later confirmed the driver was not ripping me off.
- Meters. Lesson: Insist on them. Explanation: Speaking of taxi drivers and rip-offs...Lonely Planet is right: insist on using the meter when taking a taxi (unless you absolutely know where you are going, how far it is, and how much it should cost). I was about 5 minutes walking distance to Wat Pho (which I didn't know at the time), it was raining, and I was late to meet my friend, so I decided to hop in a cab (going the wrong direction, of course). He wanted to charge me like 200 baht (~US$5) but I insisted he use the meter. Even taking the long way around the Grand Palace and Wat Phra Kaew, it only cost like 30 baht.
- Bangkok to Suvarnabhumi Airport (BKK). Lessons: Don't exit the freeway and insist on the meter. Explanation: Again, thanks to Abbie for the heads up. If your driver exits the freeway just before getting to the airport (watch the signs), then he's taking the long way. The freeway goes directly into the airport, so make him get right back on. And, again, it was cheaper for us to use the meter from the Banglamphu district of Bangkok to BKK, even with horrendous morning traffic in town.
- Damnoen Saduak floating market. Lesson: Shop around. Explanation: The only time we did a flat rate was for a taxi to the floating market. I think we paid a bit more than we would have if we took a taxi to the bus terminal, then a bus to the market, but we figured it was worth the time savings. So, if going to Damnoen Saduak floating market by taxi, be sure not to head into the first several parking lots: they are more expensive. I think the first guy tried to charge us 1000 baht, while LP suggests 150B to 200B per person. I don't know where the main pier is exactly, but we drove quite a ways in before turning ( left) into some area, which seemed much more active than the first lot. Lonely Planet says to take the bus to the pier, but we didn't see any buses, so maybe we weren't at the main pier yet. In any case we were able to negotiate a boat that was similar in price to Lonely Planet's suggested price. Actually, now I forget if we paid 300B total, or 300B each. Anyway, pretty close regardless. The market wasn't like those I've seen in posters but the posters might be old, as Lonely Planet does say the market is geared more towards tourists now than being an actual marketplace where locals may shop for everyday goods.
- Air con. Lesson: Get a remote. Explanation: Look for rooms that have a remote controlled A/C. You can fine tune the temperature and make other adjustments. Everyone seems to be carrying Lonely Planet books in Cambodia and Thailand, so guesthouses LP recommends fill up faster. Mostly, the reviews were accurate. It's just some of the tiny details that might be left out. For example, we first checked into the Rambuttri Village Inn (our first choice Lamphu House was difficult to find [you have to look hard as it is towards the back of a tiny alley], and when we did it didn't have the room combinations we were looking for). RVI was pretty much a concrete dorm room, see pic. LP wasn't kidding when they said "there's not much atmoshpere to speak of". Stark white walls, but hey, it was clean, there was tv and air con! Speaking of air con. Here's why you want a remote. RVI's a/c unit was basically on/off, unless you are 6'2" like me. I even had to stand on a chair to turn the stick (they pulled off the knob) to try and adjust the fan speed and temp. It must have been even harder for Tracy. Anyway, didn't help. Woke up too cold, turned off a/c. Woke up too hot, turned on a/c. Repeat. The next day, we went exploring for a new place to stay. Settled on Happy House Guesthouse. Nice staff, better "atmosphere" in the room, and remote controlled a/c! You can set the temperature, control the fan speed, etc. Much better sleep, and same price as RVI. There was construction next door, but the front desk clerk was accurate in saying when it started (~8am?). I didn't notice it at all at night. The picture on the left is almost exactly the room I had, sans flowers on bed and candle.